Manners

I was at the Honda workshop getting some accessories for my bike.
It should be evening time in the month of august, it wasn't raining but sunny inspite of rainy season.
I was waiting outside the service area where all the bikes were parked and the technicians were busy inside working on the bikes.

People were coming and going collecting the repaired bikes n scooters.After a few minutes one family came, two almost adult boys and their parents.It seems they had given white activa for repairs which was almost 6 months old.

Now white car vehicles need to cared a lot for damages due to stains.Even the slightest scratch looks like a huge border on the pure white surface.

So the boy among the family was claiming that the bike had been sctrached and blamed the workshop for mishandling the bike. After a debated discussion the boy took the bike and went away. 

While this was happening I wondered whose fault was it ?

When you give your car/bike in repairs you cannot expect they will care for your vehicle like you do.

So you just have to rest on blind faith/hope that your bike comes out totally fixed without any physical damages.

Make sure you take good care of your vehicle paint.For repairs sent your vehicle only to the reputed/trusted workshops.

Same applies when repairing your cellphones,laptops and other similar gadgets.
We cant expect others to care for our stuff in our absence.
But the best we can do is apply preventative measures for our stuff.For instance we password protect our computers so no one can access it besides you.

We encounter similar cases in our lives.For instance, when you send your kid to school it is your duty as a parent to make sure he behaves good outside.You have to mould him, teach him good manners.The teacher cant pay attention to hundreds on student at a time,considering the nature of each individual kid is different.
Make sure your kid reads good books, does some creative work and does not become a problem child.

It began with something but ended something else...

I'm gonna start with the quote from an episode of HIMYM season 8 episode 1 ...

Klaus: Victoria is wunderbar, but she is not my "Lebenslanger Schicksalsschatz." She's my "Beinahe-Leidenschaftsgegenstand"... it means the thing that is almost the thing that you want, but it's not quite. That is Victoria to me.

Let me summarize, 
Victoria,Ted's love interest runs away from altar of her marriage with Klaus.
She meets Ted and Ted later meets Klaus on the metro station.On conversation with Klaus,Ted asks him why he cant marry Victoria to which Klaus gives the reply which is given above.

 Well, what I want to say is that we shouldn't hurry with most important decisions of our lives.
For instances one shouldn't fall in love just because one is lonely.When you are ready the things will fall into places and you will eventually find the final partner.

But that doesn't mean you should avoid the girl/boy who is giving you line.If you keep avoiding the incoming crushes, people may get the wrong perception about you.You could always divert the incoming crushes into the Friendzone.

I feel I shouldn't get into love affairs/have girlfriends/boyfriends until one is stable.
By stable I mean you are having good financial backup which may include financially stable parents or you have 
excellent bank balance.
Money is everything man.
Affection,popularity or good manners may help you to survive for a short period but money is your ultimate Lifeline.
Without money you cannot have a good house,a mercedes or superhighspeed gadgets.
Without money you cannot eat good nor drink class.
You see, money depicts your status in the world.They say money cannot buy happiness but I think I'd rather be sad than be poor because from my perspective and from what I have gone through I'd choose Money over happiness.
They say millionares and billionares are seldom happy but I dont think so nor do I see so.
For instance one becomes are billionare after some hardwork in industry or marketting or by invention some stuff.
I mean if you are a billionare industrailist,inventor or something very popular.
You are married with a good wife.
You got good friends.
You have no tensions ,Ok you may have some tensions due to some problems as you are a billionare industrailist but you also have good people to take care of the problems.
The thing is your happiness depends on the people surrounding you and your behaviour with them and also your behaviour in society.
See if people percieve you as good they'll be good to you, perhaps help you in times of need,But if you are rich and good then people will stick to you no matter what provided the people around you are good.
It all depends on how you judge people around you.Its your life and you can choose who you want with you.

Well, my point is, whoever says money doesn't buy happiness was a poor fuck or maybe he was some millionare but didnt know how to gather the happiness or where to find it.

As far as I see money can buy lots of things that can make one happy. Ofcourse money cant buy life or do miracles or have the same effect as emotions but money can certainly change the emotions of people.
It can change the way people behave with you.

First Post

Hello ,

How are you ? 

I know most of you would probably answer  " fine " or " good ".

Well, fhuck how you are ? ,unless you are good to me or you are someone I care.Well, that's what how the society is.

If you are good to people or they benefit from you some how, people will stick around for you.

There are very few well wishers (commonly known as friends)   who are concerned about you irrespective of your social status or bank balance, and if you have got such well-wishers you are a lucky human being.

My motive behind this blog is to post my ideas on the internet where everyone can read it and if they want they can post their views, though I dont care whether the your views are good or bad. I'll post what I wish to post it may be funny,logical or not, focusing on social issues,something that is going to make you think  !!

Dont take the posts seriously. Unless they are of serious nature or they are going to do good for someone.

Have a good day.
Dont forget to check my blog every saturday for new posts.